Hello Queens, take a notebook & pen for this one!
Ever wondered where you are going wrong when it comes to this topic?
I will now highlight 11 ways in which you can add support & value to a man’s life.
1.Support.
You must be his biggest supporter, his biggest fan. Show him how proud you are of him often. Have his back through everything, and hold him accountable which will help him become his best self with help from you. You could tell him any ways in which you think he could improve or any ideas. Although he wants to be the male dominating figure, you must be able to add value by giving him new ways of doing things and teaching him new ways from a female's POV too. You need to be able to grow TOGETHER.
2. Be his peace.
Men do not thrive off of toxicity & drama. Avoid it at all costs. Be different to most females. There is nothing like the feeling of peace. A man who is working so hard and has a lot going on needs that calming nature in a woman. You should be his escape from reality.
3. Respect yourself.
You are this man's trophy. If he is going to be showing you off, you need to be able to respect yourself and not have a bad name. How are you treating yourself? Do others respect you? How do you act as an individual? Are you selfless? Do you help others? You must have confidence that radiates from within. The way you view yourself is how others view you. By being this respectful woman you have much more in common with your man. You want other men to tell him how lucky he is.
4. Treat him like a King.
Many people think that this is the man's job only to do things such as random acts of kindness, but it is not. Society forgets about men and sees women as those who deserve special treatment. He is treating you as his Queen. Reciprocate the energy. Do not get too comfortable. Randomly buy him the things he likes, surprise him with lunch, take him out to his favourite restaurant, or do an activity that he loves even if you don't like it. Make him dinner and lay it on the table when he gets home from the gym. Be willing to invest in your man. Spoil him from time to time, not just on his birthday.
5. Accept him for who he is.
Do not compare him to other men, accept his flaws & help him work towards improving them. You want to increase his confidence not demolish it. As said previously, grow with him, and push him to do more, they just need that support. There is always room to improve.. no one is perfect.
6. Be his sexual fantasy.
Don't slack in the looks department, take care of your appearance. If you are what he desires sexually, plus you can provide the things above, why would he go elsewhere? Get to know what he likes and dislikes in the bedroom & learn to be submissive. Be open to trying new things.
7. He must be able to take you anywhere & be proud.
You must be a good conversationalist and be able to adapt to any situation. Can he trust you alone with his friends? Can you be at an important meeting with him without you embarrassing him? Can he leave you for a few hours with his family? Know that there is a time & place to act, dress and speak in different forms.
8. Let him have some alone time.
Do not be too clingy. You need to be able to do your own thing at times. He needs some space away from you, and so do you it is healthy. He needs to connect to his masculine side by being around his friends and alone to gather his thoughts. Let him do this and let it be a norm. It is good to miss each other sometimes.
9. Recognise his love language.
You should both take the love language test. It will help with how you both communicate. You need to know his desires & needs in the relationship. The five love languages are words of affirmation, physical touch, quality time, gift-receiving & acts of service.
10. Say yes more than you say no
You do not always have to prove a point & you are not always right. Sometimes it is easier to say yes, & be cooperative.
11. Be feminine.
Every masculine man desires a soft, feminine woman. Easy-going women are considered more attractive & the relationships last longer. You can find out more about femininity & why it is so important in my e-book.
Take away this value & put it into practice. Trust & believe in yourself!
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The notes I just took from this damn! Very helpful, thank you!