Hey ladies, here I will address some traits that will help you become a more valued woman.
Take a notebook & pen, write these out and honestly tick those that currently apply to you. The ones you do not tick are those you must work on!
1. Be confident.
Confidence must radiate from you, it must outweigh any insecurities that you have. Being confident is so attractive, think about any female role models you have, they all have this in common. It shows that you know what you are talking about & people are drawn to that. Believe in yourself & the energy that is inside & emits from you will sparkle.
2. Know your worth / have self-respect.
You do not need anyone to validate you & you need to embrace your best self. Have respect for yourself & walk away from anything toxic. Be willing to be alone for a while to work on yourself, and find happiness within yourself. Anything making you vibrate at a low frequency & making you feel anything less than good should be removed. Never settle.
3. Stop partying every weekend.
Now I’m not here to say never go out & have fun, if you want to, by all means, do so.. BUT do not do this every weekend. A MAN will never take you seriously if you are out getting drunk all the time, even going out to parties/clubs all the time sober it still doesn’t look the greatest. This is temporary pleasure, the real pleasure is working towards your future. Think about this. Would guys go to clubs/parties if there were no females there, just other guys? Looking from an outsider’s POV you appear unserious.
4. Act feminine.
Ways you can act feminine:
- Self Care
- Be submissive
- Heal
- Take care of your hygiene
- Make yourself look good
- practice proper posture
- Have good manners
- Smile
- Speak lady-like
- Give & Receive compliments
- Be happy
- Dress like a lady from time to time
- Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable
- Avoid masculine behaviours
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5. Be mature.
Be aware of your strengths and weaknesses, and hold yourself accountable for working on your weaknesses. Do not get involved in drama, know when your response is not needed. You do not always need to prove your point. Work on yourself, forgive and let go. Mature women are more self-aware, charming and adventurous.
Ways in which you can be mature:
- Life experiences
- Hanging around older people
- Eliminating distractions
- Practice self-control
- Take ownership
- Avoid negativity
- Do not argue
When it comes to dating:
The conversations with mature women are deeper and more meaningful, there will also be less drama. The relationship is more intimate because it is more substantial. You can give greater advice, which can be life-changing for many men. You will have a life-long lasting effect on them.
6. Be into personal development.
Self-development is focusing on bettering yourself and feeding your brain great energy. This could be done by listening to podcasts, reading, meditating etc. Self-developing daily will boost your self-esteem and makes you a happier person. When you improve your relationship with yourself, you improve your relationships with others. You have to become the person you want to attract, so if you focus on bettering yourself the right person will come along and they will value you because of your high quality of life.
7. Act Selfless.
Think of others and become unselfish. Any value you have, do share with others & help wherever you can. Become that person that people want to go to for comfort and to be comfortable to open up to. Doing this will attract the right people into your life. If a guy sees that you are already selfless he knows that this is how you will act like this in the relationship. It promotes a healthy relationship, love & growth which is all a guy wants in a relationship.
8. Take care of your health.
You need to look after yourself inside and outside. Workout, go to the gym, do some yoga, drink loads of water, eat healthily and commit to it. It is also important to take some rest. No one values someone who is lazy or doesn’t take care of her insides.
9. Have class.
Hold yourself with class and grace. You can be classy & sexy at the same time. Do not compete with other females. Do not live to seek attention from others. Do not be everywhere all the time, leave some room for imagination.
10. Live a life of integrity.
Be honest, trustworthy & reliable. Stand up for what is morally right, regardless of the circumstances including when no one is watching.
How:
- Be Humble
- Keep promises
- Stay true to your word
11. Do not chase men.
Men are natural-born hunters, never chase them, they will chase what they desire. Make the chase enjoyable and worth their time, but do not play hard to get it. If a man walks out of your life, or anyone.. let them go!
12. Have a clear purpose in life.
Your purpose should give you meaning & fulfilment. Even when things seem difficult, do not give up. You recognise what you need to do & how to get there. Remember to remain happy when doing so.
13. Be supportive.
Support is one of the biggest things any man and even friend wants. It makes your bond stronger, your partner knows they can rely on you on a deeper level of intimacy. It will help them achieve their goals.
How to support someone:
- Be more empathic
- Listen
- Express your love & appreciation
- Acknowledge their feelings
- Understand your partner
Good luck with putting these into practice queens :)
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